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What is your relationship to independence?

Posted on Jul 4th, 2009 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

I believe in interdependence rather than independence.....we exist in and as this nexus of physical, emotional and morphogenic finely-grained goop and not as this little island of figure in a ground of separate otherness.....seeing life... More »

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What has your recent relationship to money been like?

Posted on Jan 13th, 2009 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

Well yesterday I posted up that I'd be founding Psychoastralism and my respondees got all bread-headed about the thang...don't know why that happened.......anyways, the Good Book sayeth that the labourer is worth his hire .....and... More »

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Who have you lived with the longest?

Posted on Sep 9th, 2008 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

Myself...taking into account that facial cellular turnover occurs at the rate of one death/one meiotical birth every two seconds and that all the molecules of my annamayakosha (physical vehicle) are replaced within seven years...or so... More »

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What friend or beloved family member lives furthest from you?

Posted on Aug 28th, 2008 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

In that geography counts for nothing when hearts are connected, and that friends are not folk distanced from me emotionally by definition...then this leaves remote family members....since my father and son are the only family... More »

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How can we stay connected?

Posted on Jul 15th, 2008 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

Try this experiment....starting right now. ....every time you encounter another human being, however familiar they are to you, register whether your knee-jerk response is predicated from experiencing how different you are from that other or... More »

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What helps you stay open?

Posted on Jul 11th, 2008 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

WARNING WARNING THERE HAS BEEN A BREACH OF SECURITY DEFENSES. REPEAT; THERE HAS BEEN A BREACH OF SECURITY DEFENSES. THE IDENTITY-NARRATIVE IS ATTEMPTING TO ESCAPE FROM MAXIMUM SECURITY SECTOR CODENAME EGO. YOU WILL CARRY OUT... More »

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What gets in the way of us connecting with others?

Posted on Jul 10th, 2008 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

Love love will tear us apart...again... as Ian Curtis sang.....and yesterday I read that some nut tried to connect with him more deeply by ripping off his headstone and presumably taking it home..... Which verifies... More »

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What is your relationship to conflict?

Posted on Apr 15th, 2008 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

I'm trying to suppress a grin at the synchronicity of this question being asked given my offgrid life right now..... Conflict is a necessary part of life when couples, families, tribes and nations individuate.....jostling is... More »

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Richard Erskine; The Eight Relational Needs.

Posted on Dec 31st, 2007 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

Here on the runup to the New Year, contemplating the miracle of We-ness in solitude, I got to thinking about what it is which motivates us to relate to one another in the way in... More »

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What's the longest relationship you've been in?

Posted on Nov 23rd, 2007 by Shameslaya : Tantrika Kosmocentria Shameslaya

The one with mySelf...we've had a lot of mentored fun  over the last few incarnations...I do a lot of shouting and thrashing and Self stays silent and still..then I subside into deltarhythm Self duetting and... More »

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