Gaia: Connect. Grow. Inspire. Empower.
Is your mind a safe place to be?
Since the mind is ineffable, then ya can't eff it so yeah it is.
When have you felt unconditionally accepted?
In the embrace of my therapist....and within the eyes of my son and partner Tam...and in a few folk I have known, notably Tam and Ruari (Goatfish here on site)..... and in the moments of... More »
What do you like best about birthdays?
Not burning the candles at both ends. Also, the kazoos.
When have you cried from happiness?
It was so seriously kinky I couldn't even begin to tell ya. Seriously; maybe the last time i cried with happiness was when I felt so happy and so in tune that the experience reminded... More »
How do you show someone you love them?
I become the man I am and I connect with the beloved through all climates like a world-circling yachtsman....with compassion, gentleness and fire... without co-dependence ...and sometimes with chocolates, particularly that Green and Black's organic... More »
What is the best way to show someone you love them?
Once you have outgrown the shopfront of flowers, meals, chocolates and sexfest it's time to step fearlessly into the shop and contend with the storeowners mild lapses of that civility calculated to keep you there... More »
Where in your life do you follow your heart?
Through clitterfields of numbness and pain...over hills and dales of short-lived pleasure...through the metropolitan boulevards of seduction and disillusionment and finally finally finally out out over the open, lush and barren lands of spiritual promise...out... More »
How can we be more caring?
I cannot speak for you..I can only call out my own name into the unsulliable vastness of This-I-Am...and in hearing its echo which is not an echo but the aftertaste of the substance of this... More »
What would you like to have done by your next birthday?
I was hoping to write something suitably obtuse today but looks like it's down to personal details....{sigh}... My birthday is in late June and the day after it, I fly to Slovenia to take a... More »
What have you learned from having your heart broken?
Well I was pretty pissed off when the "H" fell off the front but then when the "T" fell off the back I was left with an ear and then I learned to listen properly... More »






